Did I mention that I have a granddaughter? No? While here she is!
She is sweet. There are bows and flowers and pretty clothes. There is lovely dark hair and lots of it. She’s beautiful and she’s perfect. I know she will grow up to be smart and successful, and she has two big brothers to watch out for her.
I’m over the moon in love with her and I haven’t even met her yet. I’m a boy mom – and a boy grandma. Now I’m a girl grandma too. This is going to be so fun!
Tell me everything I need to know about being a grandma to a little girl. Boys I understand. Girls? This is unchartered territory for me. Help!
Grandmas, do you remember when your youngest child no longer needed the high chair, booster seat, crib, car seat, baby monitor, change table, baby gate, high chair, sippee cups, swing, etc., etc., etc? If you’re like me, it had been taking up space in your house for years and years. In fact, by my calculations, we had an assortment of furniture and toys necessary for keeping young children safe AND entertained for perhaps 15 years of our 30 years of marriage.
When it came to time to get rid of it, did you have the discussion with your spouse like I did that went something like “do you think we should keep some of this stuff? What about grandchildren?” To which he just laughed and loaded it off to Goodwill (you could back then – they’d take all of it!). I mean – our oldest 15 years ago was 14 so HEAVEN FORBID there would be a grandchild anytime soon.
Off it all went to make room for teenage type stuff – trophies, medals, report cards, sports equipment, bicycles, skate boards, back packs, video game systems, ping pong tables, etc., etc., etc.
No one told me that I’d need all of that baby stuff again. Why didn’t someone tell me that? Here were are. Littles need to be entertained and kept safe in my house again.
CONFESSION: I have accumulated a RIDICULOUS amount of baby stuff in round two! What in the world happened? I bought it once. I happily got rid of it all. Then I bought it all back again.
We are getting our house ready to sell – “downsizing”. Except that I’ve upsized with so much baby stuff, I have no idea where to put it all now. And who knows when I’ll ever get rid of it again? I could be packing this stuff around for another 20 years. I think I might have even more than the first time around.
Dear Target and Wal-Mart – you are missing a huge population of shoppers. It’s the grandmas you should be talking to. We’re the ones buying all of YOUR stuff AGAIN. This time we hardly even care about the price – because nothing’s too good for our littles.
Grandmas – I’ve seen the set-up some of you have. It’s a lot – and I admire that. You are my role models. I’m trying to be like you and my husband is not happy about it. But still – the littles need to be happy when they’re visiting. If they’re not happy, their momma’s not happy, and then they won’t visit. It’s that simple.
I love to FaceTime with my littles and show them the new stuff grandma bought so that they tell their parents they want to “go to grandma’s house”. It’s ingenious.
How much baby stuff have you accumulated in ROUND TWO?